We are living times when it seems that all we have been agreement on the same subject: to humanize. But I sincerely believe that we are many who inspired by the need to be and feel more human. We have started a project to try to make it true.
It must be something like when "coincidentally" researchers that don´t known each other, work without knowing it, in the same idea with an incredible synchronicity.
And by that same need, in the Association ViaManos, which I am volunteer, we believe that a better world is possible, but to do this reality we have to commit to give the best of ourselves, to assume our responsibility and set up our intelligence, our sensitivity and our ability to achieve that more humane society, an aware society based on values and not on things.
To contribute to humanization, we decided to organise a Conference (this will be the second edition), to serve as a meeting point to all those people who feel that interest of humanize and where ideas and actions oriented towards tihs common goal will be exposed.
We have the pleasure of having some great speakers who altruistically, will bring us their experience and wisdom to create a climate of motivation that will help us in our aim of humanizing.
These speakers come from different areas, as health (Enric Benito and Jorge Carvajal), education (Pepa Horno), economy (Joan Antoni Melé), business world (Jose Mª Hernández) and volunteers (Pedro Pascual); all seasoned with a few very special touches of humor conscious (Fidel Delgado) and art (Daniel Alzamora-Dickin and Gori Artieda).
VíaENcuentro will be held in Palma de Mallorca on June, 6th to 7th June, at the Conservatorio superior de Música y Danza de Illes Balears. The entrance fee is €30.
From here we encourage you to participate, we need more human hands in health and in every corner of the world (link to registration form).
Sofía Sánchez, ICU nurse and volunteer of ViaManos Association
Hola a todos, my dear friends.
Today we have a new friend and guest, Dr. José Manuel Salas.
A couple of days ago, Dr. Ángela Algaba, mate of the ICU of Hospital Universitario de Torrejón , sent me the next post of José Manuel. After reading, I got in touch with him to share it with all of you.
And that´s life! José also has a special relation with Bolivia. So, we have started a new friendship and for sure we will work together in some projects.
This is his wonderful blog: Your Family Doctor...reflexiones con tinta de médico (only available in Spanish)
Here is his post: Doctors also cry.
Wellcome to the IC-HU Project José Manuel. And thank you.
"And the world was surprised to see the photo of a doctor crying after losing a patient, and the healthcare professionals were surprised to see the reaction from the world."
And we were surprised because we already know that under each robe, pajamas or university degree in the area of health, there is always a human being.
A human being, having the ability to suffer and feel like anyone else.
Who has not ever seen crying to a companion in a shift?
Who do not end up once collapsed after a story with a sad ending?
Who didn´t imagine for a second what would happen if we were on the other side?
For sure, it´s a great mistake to think in the topic "men don't cry", but worst favor made us that some placed our profession on a pedestal above the rest, because nothing is farther from reality than this erroneous vision.
Because medicine is practiced from the humility, with feet on the ground and next to the patient.
I never shared that traditional stereotype, of the eternal sacrifice of the physician, who takes our profession 24 hours a day and is obliged to marry with medicine, putting fist the profession.
We are human, we are alive, and we try to do our job the best as possible. We study and prepare for it, but our humanity is that makes us great an we must never relinquish.
Professionals who work in emergencies live limit emotional situations, full of tension and stress. And at the end of our assistance we have the right to bring us down, cry, and openly express what we feel. Because of don´t do it, we could forget the human seal of our profession, what differentiates us today of a simple machine. That things that tells us we are something more than a lot of skin and bones. We are soul and feeling.
And we must not forget that we are dealing with people, and how I usually say my residents, sometimes we must not seek the best medicine between the pages of a book, because it´s inside ourselves.
Because definitely, gods don't cry, but doctors do it.